Acts 6:1-7; Ephesians 4:11-16
Over the past several weeks, we have looked at three callings God has placed in His church: the senior pastor who feeds and watches, the deacons who serve, and the assistant pastors who hold up tired hands. (If you missed those posts check them out here!)
Each of these roles carries its own weight. But Scripture never presents them as separate ministries working in isolation. God gave them to be one team under Christ, so that His people would be well served and His Word would go forward.
Where the Pattern Began
One of the clearest picture of these callings working together is found in Acts 6. The church was growing, and with growth came a real need: widows were being overlooked in the daily ministry. The apostles did not ignore the need, and they did not try to carry it alone.
Acts 6:2-4
Then the twelve called the multitude of the disciples unto them, and said, It is not reason that we should leave the word of God, and serve tables. Wherefore, brethren, look ye out among you seven men of honest report, full of the Holy Ghost and wisdom, whom we may appoint over this business. But we will give ourselves continually to prayer, and to the ministry of the word.
Notice that three groups are involved. The apostles gave themselves to prayer and the Word. Seven godly men were set apart to serve. And the whole church family had a part in the decision:
Acts 6:5-6
And the saying pleased the whole multitude: and they chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Ghost... Whom they set before the apostles: and when they had prayed, they laid their hands on them.
The apostles prayed and appointed, and the deacons served. No one considered one task holier than the other. Each was needed, and each freed the other to do what God had called them to do. Then comes the result:
Acts 6:7
And the word of God increased; and the number of the disciples multiplied in Jerusalem greatly.
Three Callings, One Team
What Acts 6 shows in the early church, the rest of Scripture confirms:
- The senior pastor feeds and watches. He gives himself to prayer and the ministry of the Word, and he will answer to God for the flock (Acts 20:28; Hebrews 13:17).
- The assistant pastors sustain. Like Aaron and Hur, they hold up the hands of the man God has placed over them, sharing the pastoral load without ever seeking to take his place (Exodus 17:12).
- The deacons serve. They meet the practical needs of the church family, carrying the daily work so that the pastoral staff can remain devoted to prayer and the Word (Acts 6:3-4).
When the deacons serve faithfully, the pastors are free to pray and to teach. When the assistant pastors strengthen the senior pastor, the whole flock is better watched over. And when the pastor feeds the flock faithfully, everyone who serves is strengthened by the same Word they labor to protect. The work flows in every direction, and the whole church benefits.
What Holds It Together
A team made up of faithful men can still struggle without the right spirit. Paul describes what must hold every part of the church together:
Ephesians 4:2-3
With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Humility keeps the pastor from lording over the flock. Humility keeps the assistant from seeking the platform. Humility keeps the deacon from thinking his work is small. And above all of them stands the One to whom every one of these men answers:
1 Peter 5:4
And when the chief Shepherd shall appear, ye shall receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away.
No pastor, assistant pastor, or deacon is the head of this church. Christ is. Every office exists to serve Him and to serve His people for His sake.
Your Part in This
Remember that Ephesians 4:11-12 tells us why Christ gave pastors and teachers: for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ. Leadership is not meant to carry the ministry while the church watches. The whole body is meant to be fitted together:
Ephesians 4:15-16
But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ: From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.
That includes you. There are two ways you can take your place this week.
Pray for your leaders. Paul, a man who preached to thousands, still asked the church to pray for him:
2 Thessalonians 3:1
Finally, brethren, pray for us, that the word of the Lord may have free course, and be glorified, even as it is with you.
Your prayers matter more than you know. The writer of Hebrews says leaders watch for your souls "that they may do it with joy, and not with grief" (Hebrews 13:17). Pray for your pastor, your assistant pastors, and your deacons, by name, and ask God to strengthen them for the weight they carry on your behalf.
Serve where God has placed you. Paul reminds us that "the eye cannot say unto the hand, I have no need of thee" (1 Corinthians 12:21). Every believer has something to give:
1 Peter 4:10
As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.
Whether it is greeting a visitor, meeting a need quietly, or simply showing up faithfully, your service is part of how God builds this church.
Why It All Matters
None of this exists for the sake of organization. The purpose behind every office, and behind every member who serves, is the same: to connect people to Christ, to grow them in His truth, and to lead them to commit their lives fully to the Savior.
When pastors, assistant pastors, deacons, and the church family each do their part, the hungry soul is fed, the hurting is cared for, the lost hear the gospel, and the wanderer finds his way home. That is what Acts 6:7 looks like today.
This week, will you pray for the men who lead and serve among us? Will you ask the Lord where He would have you serve? And will you take a moment to thank one of them, in person, this Sunday?


















